To my future child

If you’re having a bad day...

Thu, 07 Jun 2018 13:32:03 -0400

Change your clothes. Even if you’re already wearing something comfortable, change into something else that’s still casual and comfy.

Eat your favorite food. A bowl of rice, ice cream, pasta, make a sandwich, anything that makes you happy.

Eat some fruit. A banana, apple, peach, pear, some berries, fruit is always a good option.

Eat some protein. Cheese, meat, eggs, rice and beans, ect. Something to give you energy.

Drink lots of water. Fill up a water bottle and keep it with you, but remember to actually drink it.

Find as many pillows and blankets as you can around the house and pile them on your bed. THE MESSIER, THE BETTER!

Bring your acquired snacks into your room. Even if you don’t make a habit of eating in your room, make an exception this time.

Bring a couple of your favorite stuffed animals to share your nest with.

If you have cats, invite them as well.

Watch an episode or two of your favorite show GUILT FREE. Nothing sad! Watch something that will make you smile and laugh a lot. And ENJOY IT. Give yourself this time to decompress without stressing over a million other things. I know it can be hard, but YOU CAN DO IT

Hang a sign outside your door, letting family members/roommates know that you are currently unavailable. Be polite, courteous, and take their needs into consideration if they need something from you, but it’s okay to have a little chunk of time all to yourself when you’re having a tough day. We’ve all been there.

Turn off your phone. Just for a little while so you can completely relax. Stay off social media too - you don’t need any drama right now.

Once you’ve finished your show and eaten a healthy amount of food, do something productive. Even if it’s just one or two little chores - sweep, do the dishes, tidy up your room, dust, reorganize the bookshelf, whatever. Do something that will make you feel like you’ve accomplished something. Even if it’s little, be proud of yourself for each task!

Listen to music while you’re working. iPod, record player, radio, etc. Make it something up beat with a nice and lively tempo.

Dance and sing. I don’t care if you dance like a fish out of water and sing like a dog whose tail was stepped on, you are a beautiful contribution to this world so don’t be afraid to shine!

Alternate in doing tasks throughout the day with doing things you enjoy. Paperwork and then a walk (fresh air always helps!), mop the floors than read that book you’ve been wanting to explore.

Talk to a friend if you need to. If you don’t think you have anyone to talk to, let me be the first to tell you, YOU DO! There are thousands of kindhearted people on here who would love to get to know you and want to help you and hear about your day if you are feeling under the weather.

Remember that this is today. Every tomorrow is another chance. Everyone has rough days, and sometimes we get a whole long string of them, but life is so much more than just the bad days. Go to bed knowing that tomorrow is a new start.

A Vida Toda (For life)- Carolina Deslandes When our son grow...

Wed, 18 Apr 2018 16:12:13 -0400

A Vida Toda (For life)- Carolina Deslandes

When our son grow up
I’m gonna tell him
That I met you in a sunny day
That your gaze locked me
And I saw the sky
And everything which was around me
That you took my hand
In that end of summer
And you took me to dinner
You had my heart
And like in a song
You made me blush

Chorus:
In that moment
I knew it was love for life
That it was with you for life
That was a love for life (x2)

When he gets older
And wants to know better
How did he come to the world
I’m gonna tell him with love
That I dreamed in detail
And was my deepest wish
That you had your eyes in water
When I came home
And gave you the new
What was already good gained wings
And in that moment I knew
That it was love for life

Chorus:
In that moment
We said it was love for life
That it was with you for life
That was a love for life (x2)

When he leaves and has his wife
And wants to share a roof
We’ll be able to see him grow
Be whatever he pleases
And take care of our grandchildren
One day, already old and tired
Always side by side
He will be able to tell
That his parents were always married
Eternal lovers
And came to prove

Chorus (x2):
In that moment
I said it was love for life
That it was with you for life
That was a love for life (x2)

That was a love for life

Never be afraid to like something that you think others won’t...

Wed, 18 Apr 2018 16:07:51 -0400

Never be afraid to like something that you think others won’t like or make fun of you. Just be yourself.

NEVER be afraid to tell me anything. I will SUPORT YOU no matter what. You are a part of me and I will always love you.

Wed, 18 Apr 2018 16:02:07 -0400

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Wed, 18 Apr 2018 15:53:19 -0400

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Friends that only remember you when they need something for you are no friends at all

Wed, 18 Apr 2018 15:47:39 -0400

Friends that only remember you when they need something for you are no friends at all

Friends

Wed, 18 Apr 2018 15:45:05 -0400

If your friends don’t trust you with great news that happen in their life …maybe you should change your friends.

"Hope when you take that jump, you don’t fear the fall Hope when the water rises, you built a..."

Tue, 09 Jan 2018 09:41:43 -0500

“

Hope when you take that jump, you don’t fear the fall
Hope when the water rises, you built a wall
Hope when the crowd screams out, they’re screaming your name
Hope if everybody runs, you choose to stay

Hope that you fall in love, and it hurts so bad
The only way you can know is give it all you have
And I hope that you don’t suffer but take the pain
Hope when the moment comes, you’ll say…

I, I did it all
I, I did it all
I owned every second that this world could give
I saw so many places, the things that I did
With every broken bone, I swear I lived

Hope that you spend your days, but they all add up
And when that sun goes down, hope you raise your cup
Oh, I wish that I could witness all your joy and all your pain
But until my moment comes, I’ll say…

I, I did it all
I, I did it all
I owned every second that this world could give
I saw so many places, the things that I did
With every broken bone, I swear I lived

Oh [4x]

With every broken bone, I swear I lived.
With every broken bone, I swear I…

I, I did it all
I, I did it all
I owned every second that this world could give
I saw so many places, the things that I did
With every broken bone, I swear I lived.

Oh [4x]

I swear I lived. Ohhh

”

- OneRepublic, I lived

Be proud of your origin.

Mon, 08 Jan 2018 17:19:14 -0500

Be proud of your origin.

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Mon, 08 Jan 2018 17:02:18 -0500

Fall in love…..with books and tv shows and movies and songs and art and boys and girls and...

Mon, 08 Jan 2018 17:01:35 -0500

Fall in love…..with books and tv shows and movies and songs and art and boys and girls and whatever you makes you happy. It’s so worth it.

Be polite. Manners aren’t hard, and they’re really important. Be polite to friends, teachers,...

Mon, 08 Jan 2018 16:57:16 -0500

Be polite. Manners aren’t hard, and they’re really important. Be polite to friends, teachers, waiters, flight attendants, people on the street, homeless — everyone.

yourbigsisnissi:any kids i have will be spoiled rotten with love. just covered in love and support...

Sat, 06 Jan 2018 12:13:52 -0500

yourbigsisnissi:

any kids i have will be spoiled rotten with love. just covered in love and support and acceptance and encouragement

Dear son (s)

Sat, 06 Jan 2018 08:14:16 -0500

Showing your love for your significant other does not make you less of a man. If you care about the person, don’t be afraid to show that.

Dear daughter(s)/son(s)

Sat, 06 Jan 2018 08:14:08 -0500

The person you choose to be with is not as important as the person you choose to be.

You do need to know who you are before someone else can get to know you. Because the right person will love you for who you are, not the person they want you to be.

Guilt is a worthless feeling. Learn from the past and then get...

Thu, 04 Jan 2018 17:48:52 -0500

Guilt is a worthless feeling. Learn from the past and then get the heck out of there.

When you are unhappy with something, you have two options: move on, or find a way to change it. Don’t wallow. It won’t fix the problem.

Dear son(s)

Wed, 03 Jan 2018 18:06:37 -0500

Be a man you want your future daughter to marry

"New York November 10, 1958 Dear Thom: We had your letter this morning. I will answer it from my..."

Mon, 01 Jan 2018 19:32:18 -0500

“

New York
November 10, 1958
Dear Thom:

We had your letter this morning. I will answer it from my point of view and of course Elaine will from hers.

First – if you are in love – that’s a good thing – that’s about the best thing that can happen to anyone. Don’t let anyone make it small or light to you.

Second – There are several kinds of love. One is a selfish, mean, grasping, egotistical thing which uses love for self-importance. This is the ugly and crippling kind. The other is an outpouring of everything good in you – of kindness and consideration and respect – not only the social respect of manners but the greater respect which is recognition of another person as unique and valuable. The first kind can make you sick and small and weak but the second can release in you strength, and courage and goodness and even wisdom you didn’t know you had.

You say this is not puppy love. If you feel so deeply – of course it isn’t puppy love.

But I don’t think you were asking me what you feel. You know better than anyone. What you wanted me to help you with is what to do about it – and that I can tell you.

Glory in it for one thing and be very glad and grateful for it.

The object of love is the best and most beautiful. Try to live up to it.

If you love someone – there is no possible harm in saying so – only you must remember that some people are very shy and sometimes the saying must take that shyness into consideration.

Girls have a way of knowing or feeling what you feel, but they usually like to hear it also.

It sometimes happens that what you feel is not returned for one reason or another – but that does not make your feeling less valuable and good.

Lastly, I know your feeling because I have it and I’m glad you have it.

We will be glad to meet Susan. She will be very welcome. But Elaine will make all such arrangements because that is her province and she will be very glad to. She knows about love too and maybe she can give you more help than I can.

And don’t worry about losing. If it is right, it happens – The main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away.

Love,

”

- John Steinbeck